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OffDays

OffDays
Gustave Courbet: Young Ladies by the River Seine (1857)
"HomeMaking, like breathing, doesn't come with time off for good behavior."

Unlike gainful employment, HomeMaking does not come with days off. It's a twenty-four/seven sort of occupation, with adequate responsibilities to entertain any three individuals for just as many hours as they'd care to contribute. Further, these are not appreciative hours but largely anonymous ones, where if one's properly engaged, no one will notice. Still, occasionally, some respite seems necessary if never wholly justified. Rather than taking a day off, I experience an OffDay. An OffDay begins like any other, though perhaps gravity might work a little better than usual when the alarm clock rings. I'm up and moving, completing my morning rituals, writing. I'll be done about the time The Muse's alarm wakes her. My breakfast will have been warming. I set right to it, shave and shower, then slow down a bit. I might lay down, I tell myself, to digest my breakfast, then doze. An hour later, I still haven't gone anywhere and am still feeling dozy. I allow myself another half hour until those short cycles accumulate into taking the whole morning.

I won't usually allow myself a whole day off when an OffDay comes calling.
I'll manage if only late in the afternoon, to struggle to complete some chore or something. The cats never take days off, either, but they depend on me being on enough to feed them at least morning and evening. If I miss their schedule, they'll come and remind me in increasingly urgent terms. Dinner, too, eventually looms, and regardless of how utterly lazy I've been, somebody's got to think about preparing something. OffDays are never recreational opportunities but extremely guilty pleasures. They seem sinful in ways no one should very frequently tolerate. They mean something sinister. They seem a blot on my character.

However cheerfully productive I might seem, I'm often deep down inside complaining. The unrelenting work wears on a fella to the point where he gets to thinkin' that a day in leisure might not kill him, or at least not immediately. It would unavoidably be the start of a downward slide, but I could probably hop off before I reached terminal velocity. Just an hour, another sixty minutes, just long enough to read the paper; I need a break but will have to steal that time. It's not mine! I sincerely hope nobody's watching. I think about my reputation. I'm slacking. I'm lacking. I'm on a downward slide. I might successfully hide my crime from you, but never from myself. I'm supposed to be working, cranking out something, not dozing along the side.

OffDays pass. The next day usually finds me up and grinding again, little worse for the lack of wear. I feel guilty, but I'm already getting over it. I have yet to scratch the surface of my leisure deficit, but then I'm actively HomeMaking, not retiring but still making hay, and will be until the day I die, perhaps even longer. My work ethic seems stronger than my survival instinct. I can focus on almost any task until long after the band packs up and heads homeward. I'm the guy who's still sanding a door front when the rest of the crew, each gainfully employed and so continually earning time off, leave for the day. I've usually already been at it a while when they return the next morning. I'm HomeMaking, which comes with no punchcard with which to check in and, more significantly, none with which to check out again, either.  HomeMaking, like breathing, doesn't come with time off for good behavior.

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